Shamanic Healer Natalie

What happens when we die?

Over the years that I have been doing this work, I have discovered much of what happens when we take our final breath here on earth and pass over. As well as speaking to many spirits who have passed, I have also assisted the passing of many spirits, mostly of young children. I am intimately familiar with the energy of death, being truly magnificent, embracing, holy and sacred. 

Firstly, I do know that there is no pain felt with our passing, the feelings and energy around passing is without fear. This energy, for those that have felt it, is not able to be expressed through words. It is one feeling but embodies the feelings of love, compassion, humility, grace, and kindness. It is indescribable, a feeling of pure love and atonement. 

When we pass, we are warmly met by our ancestors, our guides, and our passed loved ones, humans and animals. The reunion of all souls is incredibly special. The feeling of unconditional love that saturates a soul when he/she passes is so beautiful. It truly is the most wonderous, soft, and gentle energy there is to feel. This energy is pure and holy. It is a magical moment, a welcoming home. At some point, we will all birth into death. 

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Birthing into death

Even though a soul is met with so much love when he/she passes, there can be a mixture of feelings present. Some souls are relieved, excited, and very happy. Others feel confused, sad, and shocked. I have spoken to many souls who have told me that they felt grief when they passed and a longing to reunite with family back on earth. 

Just like we go through grief and healing after losing a loved one, spirits move through the same process. They often need the loving embrace of Angels to help them feel and process what they need to move through. Our human experience of sadness after losing a loved one, often mirrors theirs, regardless of how relieved they may be to be 'home' again. When each one of us passes, we go through many layers of healing, reconciliation, and understanding. In my experience, I have found that souls do not reunite with their 'highest self' immediately. This takes time. 

All souls are met with kindness. There is no fear and absolutely no judgment when we pass. I have never spoken to a spirit who didn't feel lovingly embraced when they passed. There is no hell, and there is no purgatory. These states are created here on earth, through the suffering of the mind. There is punishment or retribution by God, only ever compassion and love. 

When I have spoken about this in the past, it has angered some people. These people feel that judgment is necessary, especially if the spirit, when living here on earth, was unkind, cruel, and malicious. Whilst I am compassionate and understanding to these views, what I do know is that God has a plan for all of us, and trusts the journey of our soul. There is always compassion to the individual 'why', an evalution of the individual story. I have often joked to my clients 'nobody was born an arsehole'. It is true. It is the story of what happened to that person that 'creates' the person and the suffering. This is not for us to judge, but we are of course, allowed and invited to feel and express whatever emotions we have in regards to this. 

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What about suicides?

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During my soul sessions with clients, I often use my mediumship abilities to help my clients connect with loved ones. This not only offers healing to my clients, but also to the spirits present. I have found that our healing is their healing, and their healing is our healing. Offering this service is one that evokes a lot of peace and joy. These sessions can be very emotional. I often cry with my clients, especially when love comes through strongly. This can be very intense, equally beautiful.  My sessions are a combination of healing, spiritual guidance, shamanic healing and mediumship (where relevant). With this combination I really am able to offer my clients so much love, and really provide what they need. Admittedly sometimes I interpret things incorrectly, but I am very open, inviting my clients to challenge what I am intuiting if they do not feel I am following the right thread. Admittedly, this very seldom happens.


 

What happens to the soul of unborn children?

Even though a soul is met with so much love when he/she passes, there can be a mixture of feelings present. Some souls are relieved, excited, and very happy. Others feel confused, sad, and shocked. I have spoken to many souls who have told me that they felt grief when they passed and a longing to reunite with family back on earth. 

Just like we go through grief and healing after losing a loved one, spirits move through the same process. They often need the loving embrace of Angels to help them feel and process what they need to move through. Our human experience of sadness after losing a loved one, often mirrors theirs, regardless of how relieved they may be to be 'home' again. 

All souls are met with kindness. There is no fear and absolutely no judgment when we pass. I have never spoken to a spirit who didn't feel lovingly embraced when they passed. There is no hell, and there is no purgatory. These states are created here on earth, through the suffering of the mind. There is punishment or retribution by God, only ever compassion and love. 

Lost Souls

I have clear boundaries as a medium. I only work with spirits who my grandfather (in spirit form) allows to communicate with me. My grandfather acts like a bouncer and a bodyguard for me, he checks out the spirits before he lets them talk to me. Often checking that they have loving intentions. He has never allowed a spirit to communicate with me that could cause suffering to me or my clients. For this, I am extremely grateful. When he was living, he worked in the military. Honestly, he looks quite scary, stoic, and strong. He never really talks to me, as when he was living, he was also a man of few words. But I know he loves me, and I love him very much too.   

I also have boundaries around how I want spirit to communicate with me. For many mediums, they often re-experience the death of the spirit who comes forward in some way. For me, I have clearly said that I do not want to experience this in my body or being. Often mediums do this for validation, but I find it too painful emotionally, so I have put up boundaries around this. The last time I re-experienced a death, it was a drowning. Re-experiencing death, albeit often a loving death, is not something that I enjoy or feel is necessary. There is a gorgeous and famous medium who has a show on Netflix by the name of Tyler Henry. Tyler re-experiences deaths and every time I watch this, my heart breaks for him. I don’t think it’s kind to him or healthy for him psychically, seems a little sacrificial to me, even though it quickly validates his abilities and communication.   

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Many spirits have told me that they want their loved ones to know that they are always around them, guiding them and sending them signs. They also really long to stay connected to their loved ones on earth and are often asking my clients to talk to them, and about them often. This brings them close. It helps with their healing process. Sometimes those living try to push away their grief by ignoring it and pushing away memories of their loved one who has passed. This only perpetuates suffering for both and living and deceased.

 

Spirits are always telling people that they are no longer suffering, and that they have reconnected with others. They often speak about feeling free from pain, from being proud of their loved ones and sometimes, they offer apologies for their behavior on earth if it has caused hurt. Often spirits will talk about the pets that they are reacquainted with, with places they have been and things they have experienced. They are always showing love and pride. They are often sharing their knowledge, and sometimes there is a sense of ‘I told you so’, offered in a humorous way. Many times, I have heard spirits encourage loved ones to have more fun, experience more joy and reconnect with laughter.

Reincarnation

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